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Postby Vutulaki » Sat Apr 01, 2017 10:14 pm

Shinkicker wrote:
Vutulaki wrote:Meh only white teens seem to send nudes around, ethnic girls have the threat of honor killings to worry about. Thats all I have to remind my daughter of.. good old fashion set them straight for good honor killings

Sharia for the west!


Keep telling yourself that.


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Those who know.. KNOW! :)

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Postby Masato » Sat Apr 01, 2017 11:00 pm

Here is a short piece by some anarchist-Mom I follow on Twitter

I like how she knows when to wrap it up, too many writers go on and on tl;dr. Get to the fuckin point, make your point.

Some sensible parenting ideas:

https://steemit.com/parenting/@thevolun ... socialists

Mamas Don't Let Your Babies Grow Up To Be Socialists


I never force my kids to share their property, e.g., toys, clothes, etc., because I believe that there is a value to sharing if it’s voluntary. When I teach children lessons about interacting and socializing with others I allow them the autonomy to learn from their experience. When my children understand that they have control over their property they learn that they are respected and this builds their self-confidence. It also encourages them to understand that respect is a two-way street.

Often my son or daughter will want the other’s toy, sometimes it’s freely given, other times the request is denied. While there can be disappointment with the latter reaction, it’s a lesson to be learned for them. Because one of the principles that I live and teach by is that stealing is wrong. To implement this experience early on and to remain consistent with this as I guide them to the best I know how. And often my children do choose to share, because they know it makes their sibling happy and that at another time the favor will be returned.

To dispel the idea of authority as early as possible, it’s important that I teach my children that they can make decisions for themselves when the situation allows it. (I am speaking of their voluntary interactions, not of situations that are possibly life threatening to their well-being.)

What I notice is that this empowerment gives them a chance to learn respect for others and themselves. They become more aware of how they interact with others, the concept of setting boundaries, and teaches them responsibility. The more I can give my children these opportunities, the more independent and self-reliant they become. If I am consistent with my actions while my children are learning, then I am confident they will live their lives, taking responsibility for themselves and creating a peaceful world.

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Postby Masato » Sat Apr 01, 2017 11:58 pm

^ though at the same time I could likely also support a well-written bit on teaching some communal/socialist values to kids; sharing, whats good for your neighbor is good for you, etc.

See that's the messed up thing about parenting, there's a million ways to look at it, all have some value. Parents gotta parent how they know best according to their ideals and values, but these can vary greatly, obviously. I suppose some things will find common ground, these are likely the hotspots.

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Postby Masato » Sun Apr 02, 2017 12:01 am

This was a movie I watched recently and really enjoyed.

Dad raises his kids in a relatively extreme way according to his personal ideals and beliefs, and while there is much merit in his boldness he discovers the pitfalls of perhaps being too bold

good flick, an extreme example of something I'd bet all parents fall prey to in different ways


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Postby Vutulaki » Sun Apr 02, 2017 12:04 am

Jesus there's no chance of me giving a fuck about my kids political leanings any time soon, they are at the fighting over which side of the dinner table to sit on stage

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Postby Shinkicker » Wed Aug 23, 2017 10:38 pm

Ok, I probably shouldn't tell this but it was so funny.

Yesterday after school, my 12 year old son was home alone for 30 mins or so. After me and my 14 year old get home he goes to the bathroom and I go into my bedroom next door to change. I hear bathroom door open and ...

14 yo: (sounding disgusted) hey bro, you left your ruler in the bathroom.
12 yo: (further away) inaudible
14 yo: (same disgusted tone) inaudible
14 yo: (headed back to bathroom, still disgusted) now I need to wash my hands.

I couldn't help but laugh. I would finally compose myself only to lose my shit again after a few minutes. Sometime later..,.,

12 yo (muffled yell from his room) Mom! Stop it!

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Postby Vutulaki » Thu Aug 24, 2017 12:55 am

Shinkicker wrote:Ok, I probably shouldn't tell this but it was so funny.

Yesterday after school, my 12 year old son was home alone for 30 mins or so. After me and my 14 year old get home he goes to the bathroom and I go into my bedroom next door to change. I hear bathroom door open and ...

14 yo: (sounding disgusted) hey bro, you left your ruler in the bathroom.
12 yo: (further away) inaudible
14 yo: (same disgusted tone) inaudible
14 yo: (headed back to bathroom, still disgusted) now I need to wash my hands.

I couldn't help but laugh. I would finally compose myself only to lose my shit again after a few minutes. Sometime later..,.,

12 yo (muffled yell from his room) Mom! Stop it!


Measuring his cock.

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Postby Shinkicker » Thu Aug 24, 2017 3:33 am

Vutulaki wrote:
Shinkicker wrote:Ok, I probably shouldn't tell this but it was so funny.

Yesterday after school, my 12 year old son was home alone for 30 mins or so. After me and my 14 year old get home he goes to the bathroom and I go into my bedroom next door to change. I hear bathroom door open and ...

14 yo: (sounding disgusted) hey bro, you left your ruler in the bathroom.
12 yo: (further away) inaudible
14 yo: (same disgusted tone) inaudible
14 yo: (headed back to bathroom, still disgusted) now I need to wash my hands.

I couldn't help but laugh. I would finally compose myself only to lose my shit again after a few minutes. Sometime later..,.,

12 yo (muffled yell from his room) Mom! Stop it!


Measuring his cock.



That's what I figure.

i didn't realize it started so early.

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Postby Som-Pong » Thu Aug 24, 2017 10:30 am

Shinkicker wrote:
Vutulaki wrote:
Shinkicker wrote:Ok, I probably shouldn't tell this but it was so funny.

Yesterday after school, my 12 year old son was home alone for 30 mins or so. After me and my 14 year old get home he goes to the bathroom and I go into my bedroom next door to change. I hear bathroom door open and ...

14 yo: (sounding disgusted) hey bro, you left your ruler in the bathroom.
12 yo: (further away) inaudible
14 yo: (same disgusted tone) inaudible
14 yo: (headed back to bathroom, still disgusted) now I need to wash my hands.

I couldn't help but laugh. I would finally compose myself only to lose my shit again after a few minutes. Sometime later..,.,

12 yo (muffled yell from his room) Mom! Stop it!


Measuring his cock.



That's what I figure.

i didn't realize it started so early.

I have never measured. In Sweden we shower naked publically. Comfortably average.

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Postby Masato » Thu Aug 24, 2017 9:05 pm

Shinkicker wrote:Ok, I probably shouldn't tell this but it was so funny.

Yesterday after school, my 12 year old son was home alone for 30 mins or so. After me and my 14 year old get home he goes to the bathroom and I go into my bedroom next door to change. I hear bathroom door open and ...

14 yo: (sounding disgusted) hey bro, you left your ruler in the bathroom.
12 yo: (further away) inaudible
14 yo: (same disgusted tone) inaudible
14 yo: (headed back to bathroom, still disgusted) now I need to wash my hands.

I couldn't help but laugh. I would finally compose myself only to lose my shit again after a few minutes. Sometime later..,.,

12 yo (muffled yell from his room) Mom! Stop it!




lol Measuring ain't gonna make no difference anyways one way or another. Be grateful with what nature provided for ya


On a different parenting note, my daughter told me today that the Beastie Boys suck.
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